Child-led Time

Spending time with your children is important! But do you really understand what it means to spend “quality” time with your child? Quality time isn't just about being next to your child. Today, #StayOkayHK wants to share a tip with all parents called “Child-led Time” ! We hope everyone can learn this to help establish quality parent-child time and strengthen your relationships with your children. 

This time should be led by the child, allowing them to express their leadership while parents follow their interests and ideas.

Parents can ask their children for their thoughts at appropriate moments, such as, "What should we play? " The key is to encourage and respect their thoughts and opinions, making them feel loved and respected! 

Parents can observe and listen to their children, giving them time to think and explore. When necessary, guide their learning by descriptive commenting while following their lead.  For example, if you want to teach them the name and colour of the object in their hand, you might say: "The red toy car you're playing with is really nice!"

Minimise distractions and bring all your attention to spending time with your child. Fully enjoy the moment, allowing your kids to feel your love and attention.

What would you like to do with your children during this time? Feel free to leave a comment and share with us!